Q and A Debt

2020 is definitely taking us on a rollercoaster of emotions. COVID19 had us all in a state of anxiety. Then the killing of George Floyd occurred. Watching the video was heartbreaking and incredibly hard to see. Unfortunately, this happens far too often in the United States. This has brought out both the best in people and the worst. Many say at least we know where everyone stands. The United States has a lot of work to do but I believe we are up to the task. We pray that as a nation we can come together and make change possible so that there is peace and equality for all.  So how has all this shaped our lives financially. We refinanced our home for a lower interest rate. It seems like life can change in a moment lately and we wanted to make sure we are saving wherever we can. Mr. Man sold his vehicle. It was 2 years old so the dealership bought it back for what we owed. He then bought a work truck in cash. So no third car payment. Our total debt numbers are now about $138,000 including

Pic from our visit to NYC Dec 2019 Our city issued a stay at home order March 25, 2020. The kids have been not going to any public places since March 13, 2020. School will be closed till May. That may be extended but all we can do is wait and see. Some of you many know that I help care for my Dad in his home. He will be 91 years old tomorrow. To say he amazes me is an understatement. His will to live is strong despite being unable to walk or talk. He has dementia so some days he is very present and some days its a struggle. But through it all, he has given all eight of his grown children strength to persevere despite what life throws at us. I have reduced my hours caring for Dad since my kiddos are home. Kiddo2 requires help with schoolwork and some days have been challenging. I have a little more time to work on Ebay which has been a big help since I can list a few things to help buy Dad's essential needs. Daily Life has been a big adjustment. I'm still trying to

So it has been quite a while since my last post. Between caring for Dad and my homelife there is not much room for much else. Friday was my last day of caretaking for the foreseeable future since Kiddo1 and Kiddo2 are not at home and starting school online due to the Corona virus pandemic. Dad is doing as well as can be expected. My siblings will continue caring for him. Adjusting to life in these times has not been easy. Store shelves are empty, friends and family are losing their jobs and the healthcare system here is beginning to show signs of strain. Everyone is tired, scared and full of anxiety. It is hard to be optimistic but everyone is trying. It is just scary times when you cannot find toilet tissue, milk, eggs or bread. Store lines are long and at times tempers may flare. People are trying to stay sane but with each day it gets a bit more difficult. We are all coping as best as can be expected. Aside from that I will take this time to help Kiddo2 with navigating school work.

Way, way, WAY back in May, I said I was going to post about my weight loss journey. HA! Jokes on me! I have not posted diddly squat! I'm sorry for whomever (I'm assuming someone reads my blog besides me...lol) was mildly curious if I was going to every follow-up on that post. Soooo..... Where am I at? I've lost a whopping 3 pounds. Frankly, I haven't exactly done a whole lot to help in the weight department. But hey, any loss is better than a gain. So, what am I going to do?  I've slowly veered over to cooking at home again. I'm not a great cook at ALL but I figure it has to be better for us than burgers and pizza every night. Ironically, my kids are not overweight and have way better eating habits than me. Tomorrow I'll resume walking on the treadmill. Not exactly high intensity cardio but crap...I'm moving. My biggest obstacle to healthy living is Dad's house. Its a minefield of ice cream, cookies and pastries. I don't buy the stuff but som

Wow...how quickly time passes. It’s been about 1 year and 7 months since my last post. Let’s see..Dad is no longer in the hospital. He got out in November of 2017. He made another appearance in March of 2018. And has been home ever since not counting a day or two hospital stay. He is completely dependent on my sister and I. We rotate shifts caring for him. My brothers come and help on the weekends. It has not been easy caring for him and trying to take care of our families. We wish it would be easier but this is what God has given us and we are trying to handle it as best we can. It seems all my time has been swallowed up by Dad. I am in a much better place when it comes to caring for him. Obviously, my absence from here was due to my struggles to take care of it all. I can say now it’s still difficult but we’re managing. Dad requires 24 hour supervision and total care so free time is nonexistent. Thankfully, Mr. Man and the kiddos are doing good. I’m trying to hang in there and no

Dad has showed immense progress. Is he speaking? Not really. But he has begun to nod yes and no. Not with 100% accuracy but enough for us to know he is there. From time to time he will get this faraway look but when he is alert and present it is wonderful. As far as his strength, he amazes us. He tries with all his might to pull himself up with one good arm (that had limited mobility and was arthritic prior to this). So his determination to get better is there. Days like these are bittersweet because I'm happy for him but sad that I still have to go to the hospital and leave my family. Mr. Man has been my rock and for that I love him even more. I'm hoping tomorrow brings more good things. I'm off to get a few winks before I leave.